Load Balancing Customization for Wide IP

In all of the Load Balancing Methods there seems to be a common theme that the top or primary Pool member will get most of the connections. Whether it be global availability where the top pool member in the list will get most of the connections, Or, whether it be ratio where the pool member with the highest percentage will get the most connections. In all of the methods once the top pool member is down the next pool member will get most of the connections and start to act as the "Primary" pool member. However, once the top or primary pool member is restored it starts to act as the primary pool member and connections. Is there a method that you can use that would allow for the primary to restore and not take on this role ?

Example....

I have a 2 pool members. Pool Member 1 is listed at the top and pool member 2 is listed next. Pool member 1 is getting most of the connections and pool member 2 is getting less connections. In the even that Pool member 1 goes down Pool member 2 would start to get all of the connections. Pool member 1 is restored but i want pool member 1 to now get less of the connections and for pool member 2 to stay as the priority.